Getting QuietRead a sample

A publication with one voice

The only advice publication that reaches you in the after, by hand.

For anyone figuring out life in the after. The core reader is on a GLP-1, or past a similar big change in body or life, roughly in their late thirties to mid forties.

Real handwritten cards from a gay man, and a weekly letter

A tall stack of cream and purple cards and envelopes with a ladder against it, one small figure climbing and another reading a card on top

what you get

Four cream deckle-edge cards covered in purple ink handwriting, fanned out beside a fountain pen on lilac fabric

The cards

Real handwritten cards, from a gay man

Written by hand, in ink

An unfolded letter and a lilac envelope with a purple wax seal on a table by a window

The letter

A weekly letter that opens Dear you,

Honest, warm and cheeky

A cup of tea, tortoiseshell glasses and a blank card with a fountain pen on a worn cream table against a lilac wall

The voice

One publication, one voice, from the first card to the last letter

The same hand throughout

A cream armchair with a lilac throw beside a window at dusk, a candle and a card on the side table

The after

Never medical and never about diets. It is about the after.

For the quiet part

The offer

A publication with one voice.

Cards by hand. A letter every week. Honest, warm and cheeky, and written for the after.

who it is for

Roughly late thirties to mid forties.

The after
Early light through a window onto lilac linen bedding with a handwritten card on the pillow

Anyone figuring out life in the after

On a GLP-1
Hands holding a lilac mug of tea over a knitted blanket with a handwritten card resting on a knee

The core reader is on a GLP-1

A big change
A card propped on a stack of folded clothes on a cardboard box in a half-packed room with a lilac wall

Or past a similar big change in body or life

how it comes

Pen-and-ink drawing of a hand writing a card beside a steaming cup and a sprig of flowers

A weekly letter that opens Dear you,

By a gay man, by hand

Honest, warm and cheeky.

  1. 1

    Open a card, written by hand

    A real card from a gay man, in ink

  2. 2

    Read the letter that opens Dear you,

    Weekly, honest, warm and cheeky

  3. 3

    Stay for the one voice

    Never medical, never about diets

a sample

A sample folded card standing open, with the words Dear you, handwritten inside, on a pale lilac backdropSample

Every letter opens Dear you,

Sample picture of a card, made as an illustration. The real cards are handwritten.

  • A cream card with purple ink handwriting on lilac linen beside a knitted sweaterSample
    A card beside the sweater
  • A handwritten card propped on a worn windowsill in front of a steamy mirror, with lavenderSample
    A card on the mirror shelf
  • A phone resting face down on a handwritten card on a kitchen counter next to a lilac mugSample
    A card under the phone
  • A handwritten card on a purple velvet cushion beside a lampSample
    A card on the cushion